Strong Heart, This Suggestion Psychologist When Seeing Raisa and Hamish David Married
Jakarta, singer soft voice, Raisa officially dipersunting Hamish Daud. Their wedding will be held on September 3, 2017. Not a few millenials in social media and fans both claim to be heartbroken over their marriage and become national broken days. In response, marriage psychologist and family of House Clinic Clinic, Wulan Ayu Ramadhani, MPsi said that someone needs to strengthen the heart there are various reasons. To strengthen, sometimes need to know first what actually makes a broken heart so terbuatkan.Padahal this we are talking about the life of artists that we only know through what is displayed in social media or news that we read, but kok feel his heart broken like kayak left behind cem-ceman marriage, said the beautiful woman who familiarly called Wulan this.
Many millennials and fans who claim to be heartbroken ahead of the wedding of Raisa and Hamish Daud / Photo: Doc. Bridestory
According to him to strengthen the heart, the first is to realize first what emotions are felt, whether sad, angry, jealous, or touched. Then accept the emotions that arise as a natural thing to happen in a situation like this. If the emotions that appear are excessive, then it should be cautious. For example, crying continuously-every time looking at the idol with her partner, loss of appetite, do not want to do social activities, do not want to meet friends, no school or work, There is a possibility that the relationship that arises between fans and idols is not healthy and is an obsession, Wulan said. In addition, Wulan also suggested to change the habit. If you feel uncomfortable when you see the idol with friends, you should see just enough. It does look easy but difficult to live, because as fans of course always want to know about his idol. Back again, if it turns out this is very disturbing, learn to find out how to control themselves so as not to often check his idols socmed, said Wulan.
Many millennials and fans who claim to be heartbroken ahead of the wedding of Raisa and Hamish Daud / Photo: Doc. Bridestory / David Salim Photography
Also read: Marriage Sema Raisa-Hamish Is Very Cool, What If Potluck? Similarly delivered by adult clinical psychologist from Three Generation, Sri Juwita Kusumawardhani MPsi, or who is familiarly called Wita. If this is considered very disturbing should not need to see or even avoid to open social media until the news about this marriage subsided.Please also ask yourself, why should it be so sad? How likely is it to make them our real partner? If it is a small possibility, then what are we crying for? Better focus on yourself, said Wita.Jika already have a partner, thankful for what is in our spouse. Strengthen our relationship with your partner. If it is still single, then it's time to expand the association so that the opportunity to meet the prospective partner becomes more open, he added. Continue Wulan, be realistic. Because whatever is felt will not directly affect the life of the artist. For example because I disagree Raisa and Hamish get married, then Raisa decided Hamish. It's not like that. There are those unpleasant emotions that can actually disturb us and those around us, Imbuh Wulan.Terimalah that idolized artist has chosen his partner and there is nothing we can do but respect and pray for him happy. In addition, realize also that not all aspects of life of the artist exposed media. There will be other things that are unknown, may be different from what is displayed in the media. Also read: Beda 10 Years Like Raisa and Hamish, Ideal for Married?
Many millennials and fans who claim to be heartbroken ahead of the wedding of Raisa and Hamish Daud / Photo: Doc. Bridestory
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